COMFY

COMFY: adj. kúmfee- providing or experiencing physical well-being or relief ('comfy' is informal)

It’s nice when you find friends that you are comfortable to be just who you are--may it may be a normal crazy you or the weirdest you can ever think you can be. They take good care of you even if you are well enough to take good care of yourself. People you don’t worry about if they will hear unpleasant things said about you—because you are confident enough that they will never judge you wrongly. It’s a rare chance to just find yourself in a set of friends who are all the comfy friends I can call right now. In a group, normally you only find one or two friends that you can really be close but in my case, I am fortunate enough to be bonded with all of them. We may have different characters and interest but we are one when it comes to the word friendship.

I’ve been thinking what’s special about my closeness with them—the answer is IMPORTANCE of one another and TIME. In the past I know I’ve given so much worth to those people who don’t know how to appreciate and now they are just there and I am still worthless for them. Finally, I found people who know how to show importance as well. Who are kind enough to love you unconditionally. People that you will never give a second thought of saying “yes” when they need your help, even if it will take me so much effort.

I have guy friends too in all sorts whom I am really comfy too but we don’t have anything more than just being friends. They criticize me, make fun of me, annoys me but they are the ones who never fails to give me comforting words. If there is such thing as loving brutally—they are in those classifications. I love it when they just hug me one hand holding my head, put their arms in my shoulders as if it doesn’t give much weight, or just simply making a sigh when all things are not well. I am lucky I have really found this guys who never at least have anything like, “hidden desires!” They say you can never choose your family but you can choose your friends. For me, I was just lucky enough to bump into them. To have a set of friends I know who accepts me for who I am. People who are not scared to show that they care, to be demonstrative and careless with what others might say. How at this age we can freely tell one another how much we love each other? It may take years for someone to really test a friendship but for me it took me only a heart beat. Can you say I love you to your friends or you haven’t really feels comfy telling them about it?